A brother or sister shares the memories of childhood and grown-up dreams, but how do we teach our toddler to accept a new baby into the fold?

Whilst it may be easy for parents to adjust to the role change, your toddler may have some serious difficulties coping with someone new stealing the limelight when you bring your baby home.

Include your child in as many of the preparations as possible.  One good way to do this is to encourage him/her to buy some baby gifts for their little brother or sister.  This is a great way to help your youngster form a mental bond with baby.

There are many wonderful ideas on the market right now.  Let your child hand pick baby gifts that they would personally like to give.  They do not have to be elaborate, just simple things such as small teddies or rattles.

Whilst your little one is pondering over which gift to lavish upon baby, it may even be a nice gesture to look at baby toys.  Whenever you buy something for the pending arrival, you should always remember to buy a little something for your other child, too.  One good idea is a book which could gently explain how things will be when baby arrives home.  The range is vast and toddler toys fluctuate from puzzle games through to riding on playthings.

Children learn by example.  By highlighting all of the good reasons to having a new addition in the family, your child will gently adapt to sharing life with another and equally enjoy the benefits.